A dream where my father is telling a 14 year old me (a lesbian girl), that I need to have a child but I keep crying and saying that I don’t want to but he doesn’t care.
Dreams about family dynamics, particularly involving parents, can reflect your inner conflicts, societal expectations, and personal desires. In this dream, your father represents authority and possibly traditional values, suggesting he has expectations for you regarding family and motherhood. Your 14-year-old self signifies a time of exploration and self-discovery, especially regarding your identity as a lesbian.
The conflict between your father's insistence and your emotional response of crying highlights feelings of pressure and a struggle to assert your own identity and desires. It may symbolize the tension between societal or familial expectations and your own understanding of what you want in life. Your refusal to have a child could represent a rejection of those expectations, as well as a desire for autonomy in your choices about your future.
This dream might be urging you to confront these expectations in your waking life, encouraging you to honor your true self and feelings rather than succumbing to external pressures. It’s important to reflect on how these themes resonate with your current life circumstances, relationships, and feelings about your identity and future.